Women also want : love, sex and money, additionally magical “I wish you know what I wish” but we not expect more than we can get (and I do know that I named only 3 things the most simple and basic). The only problem is with playing in open cards, and being socially afraid of defeat, this is why we all play hide and seek. Or maybe is it just my personal problem?!
Jaroen: That’s depressing! The problem is that lots of women love the man a lot, and understand him so much less. And it frustrates them! Because “why can’t love alone be enough?”
What women say and what they mean is a lot of the times completely different
so do men, don’t they?
What women say and what they mean are not always the same thing
ranway: true
(sorry for the double-post.. new proxy at work misbehaved and led me to believe that my first post didn’t make it.. grr..)
Ranaway, René, men are FAR more straight-forward than women.
The rule of thumb is, if you’re trying to understand a man, you’re doing too much work
Women also want : love, sex and money, additionally magical “I wish you know what I wish” but we not expect more than we can get (and I do know that I named only 3 things the most simple and basic). The only problem is with playing in open cards, and being socially afraid of defeat, this is why we all play hide and seek. Or maybe is it just my personal problem?!
Hmm…good point. I have to admit that if someone called me their muse I’d probably be too flattered to do much complaining…
Da5id: I know, since I am one
(I suddenly have the urge to read “Snow Crash” again.. hmmm weird).
Ranaway: Well said
I think this sums it up nicely:
To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little.
To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.
Jaroen: That’s depressing! The problem is that lots of women love the man a lot, and understand him so much less. And it frustrates them! Because “why can’t love alone be enough?”
Though I guess I have to agree with the comment.